Sunday, 15 April 2012

Babies are a brilliant antidote for teenage angst!

Bella and Anya
As I watched my teenagers play with the twins today I felt truly blessed.
They all have their 'moments' but they all REALLY LOVE THOSE BABIES!
Susie and Anya
I have witnessed a teenage mood evaporate the instant one of them smiles, coos, or does something funny.
And they do, all the time.
Their little personalities seem to develop and grow daily at the moment. So individual, so unique and just so darn cute!
My heart fills with joy as I watch my teens run up the path after school, dump their bags and shoes and fight to hold and love a baby first. To ask how they have been that day.
Martha and Anya
You see babies are good for a teenage soul.
Teens may not want to hug mum or dad, they maybe too cool /mad/angry/the lot! to do that, but the babies give them unconditional love. Always a hug, cuddle, smile is ready for the recipient.
I have watched my 15.5 year old, 5ft 11 son melt when he picks up Caleb to soothe him.
Luke and Caleb
They are not 'forced' to look after the babies, they do so willingly.
They take great pride in having photos of them on their face books, iphones, and other devices.
They know every little thing about their development and eagerly relate this to any teacher who has the misfortune of asking them 'how are the twins?".
Susie and Anya
At parent's night, Luke's teachers were amazed to see "Mr Cool', walk around with Caleb proudly displayed on his shoulder and complimented him on how confident he looked. Luke's face beamed.
Abie, Anya and Caleb

Equally when I have gone to the girl's parents nights and been told how they constantly talk about their twins and the rest of the family.
For such a large family, I am thankful they see all the positives and always remark on how close the children are.
I cannot imagine just having a house full of one age group.
I know my time will come, when sadly, that will be the case.
But for now I am so thankful for the little ones, who bring such joy into all our lives.
Miriam and Caleb
For all the people who perhaps thought 'we had enough' or the children cannot possibly get enough attention, I would say to come and sit with us for an hour or so, and then feedback.

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